White, middle-aged male – cishet and vanilla – basically undetectable in the M&S Men’s department. Over ten years of monogamous marriage on the clock.

Now polyamorous and probably a relationship anarchist. Learning about the difference is part of the mission of this blog – although the main mission is to reveal polyamory to be mundane, when done well.

Predictably, nerdy, leftie, and techie. Although not particularly into board games or superheroes.